9. He’s stopped complimenting you.
You literally can’t remember the last time he said anything nice about you, even when you’ve made the effort specifically for him.
11. He is more irritable with you.
Everyone can be a little short with their partner from time to time. Stresses inside and outside of a relationship can make us ill-tempered.
Your husband just seems to have no patience for you and is quick to get irritated, even at the tiniest of things.
You have noticed how often he raises his voice or makes flippant, hurtful remarks when you do or say something he doesn’t like.
12. He points out your “faults.”
In any marriage, you have to learn to accept that your partner won’t always do things the way you like to do them.
But if your husband doesn’t love you anymore, he’ll probably start to tell you that you’re doing it all wrong.
Wrinkles, gray hairs, saggy bits – he’ll bemoan that you’ve “let yourself go” whilst refusing to acknowledge how his body has also changed.
13. He bad mouths you in front of others.
It’s one thing to have a little moan about your partner to your friends or family – we all do it to some extent.
14. He is never happy, no matter what you do.
No matter how hard you try to please him and meet his needs, there is always something for him to complain about.
You don’t receive a word of thanks for all that you do for him. You are well and truly taken for granted.
And yet he expects you to be grateful for even the smallest of things that he does, and he gets upset if you don’t recognize his effort.
15. He avoids communication when you’re not together.
He never answers your calls and it can take him ages to read and reply to your messages – if he even bothers to.
It’s his way of telling you that you are no longer important enough for him to spend a few minutes acknowledging your existence.
16. He doesn’t miss you.
Not only will he try not to speak to you when you are apart, he doesn’t appear to have missed you at all when you are reunited.
17. He doesn’t talk about a future together.
You’d have goals and dreams of a better life. Of family, moving to a nicer neighborhood, and the many holidays you’d take.
18. He disrespects you in many little ways.
Perhaps he decides to go for work drinks one evening without consulting you or telling you when he’ll be home.
There are so many ways he can disrespect you, but they all point to the fact that he doesn’t love you.
19. He forgets important dates.
Even things such as hospital appointments you might have or big days for you at work – he won’t remember them unless you prompt him in the run-up.
He may claim that he’s getting forgetful (and this can happen), but even if you put it in big red writing on a calendar, he finds a way to overlook it.
20. He doesn’t put the effort in anymore.
Many of the points above boil down to this one thing: your husband simply doesn’t want to put the effort into your marriage anymore.
He lets the relationship coast along assuming he doesn’t have to do much, but there’s no real impetus for him to try to fix things.
21. He tries to turn your kids against you.
They will demean you, say bad things about you, and do whatever they can to ruin the relationship you have with your kids.